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The Hidden Language of Healed Women
Understand the hidden language drivingYOURleadership behaviors. Because your behavior isn't The Problem...It's The Messenger!
Explore the World of Totally You-nique
Discover the conversations, communities, and transformative resources designed to help you lead with greater intention, emotional authority, and authenticity.
Emotional Etiquette
Podcast
Community
Moving you and your business toward a more polished and refined“best-in-class status!”
Training
Coaching
Keynote Speaking
Counselling
Wealth Strategies
For more than two decades, Totally "You"-nique has been dedicated to serving our clients as a personalized transformational strategist. Whether you're an individual or part of an organization, we're here to collaboratively craft a plan that guides you from your present state to your envisioned future state. Our foremost objective is to support you in showcasing the finest rendition of your Totally "You"-nique self.
Moving you and your business toward a more polished and refined“best-in-class status!”
Training
Coaching
Keynote Speaking
Counselling
Wealth Strategies
For more than two decades, Totally "You"-nique has been dedicated to serving our clients as a personalized transformational strategist. Whether you're an individual or part of an organization, we're here to collaboratively craft a plan that guides you from your present state to your envisioned future state. Our foremost objective is to support you in showcasing the finest rendition of your Totally "You"-nique self.
We are Totally "You"-nique and so are you.
"Be yourself;
everyone else
is already taken."
- OSCAR WILDE
We are Totally "You"-nique and so are you.
"Be yourself;
everyone else
is already taken."
- OSCAR WILDE
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“Today I learned different personal development. You helped me to understand that I have to learn me in order to become wonderful in anything I do and be honest with myself, to identify my true self and using that to push yourself towards wanting better. I appreciate the time you take to get to know your clients and help us understand life differently. I’m very thankful and I believe everyone should do this course. Very Refreshing.”
L.C.
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“You made me look within myself to see where I went and am still going wrong.” For that I will forever thank you.”
C. GIBSON
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“Thank you, thank you for making me see there is more to me, my life, and so much more. I walked into your class ready for something else. But I am leaving today wanting to know so much more about myself.”
Z. CRANE
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“Thank you for this class and your warm big heart. I needed these words of wisdom. I’m going to take action of improving myself for me and my kids. I’m ready for a new me, thanks to you!”
S. HUGHES
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“I loved the encouraging words you gave to me today. You dug deep and it made me feel a lot better. It’s like a burden was lifted off my chest today. I learned that my mistakes do not define my future. I learned that I don’t need to be like anyone else to be successful because God made me unique. I can be myself and give myself room to learn and grow. I’m looking at myself and I’m thinking deep into what I really need to change about me. I feel revived after this session and the burden I lifted. I will keep identifying my choices and challenges and learn to grow from them.”
Q. Denard
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“The things that were said in today’s session touched my heart because I know that God has been hearing my cry. He brought a special person to pour knowledge into me to help make me a stronger woman when I walk out today.”
J. SMITH
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“I love your teaching strategy and the how you dig deep into someone’s life and present them with the real them. Thank you.”
D. MONGAR
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"I appreciate learning from you! I appreciate you having me dig deep into myself to get the confidence for public speaking. Thank you!"
A. PETER
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"You bring out the best in me, and I'm glad to have met you. You created a safe place, and I learned so much information for now and the future. You saw the good in me even when I didn't, and you didn't let me give up. I was able to get deep, laugh, cry, and you were able to touch me and teach me."
Ash
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"You bring out the best in me, and I'm glad to have met you. You created a safe place, and I learned so much information for now and the future. You saw the good in me even when I didn't, and you didn't let me give up. I was able to get deep, laugh, cry, and you were able to touch me and teach me."
I. MARTINS
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"I want you to know that your presence changes the atmosphere. From your jokes, to playfulness, confidence, and teaching, it was just F-ing Amazing! You brightened my day. Glory to God for everything he spoke through you. Continue being you because you are touching lives the right way and bringer us closer to God, even while not being in church."
J. HARTZOG
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"The entire process was relaxed. I felt no anxiety because you made me feel like that. I learned a lot about myself. This might sound strange or unrealistic for some people. But I think this experience, this made me a better "me." I am now focused and ready to get things done. I appreciate the little things in my life more. I AM READY TO DO THE WORK!"
M. LASSERREG
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“I just love the way you came in and told us about your experiences, gave us your authentic self, to showed us that we need to get to know more about ourselves.”
D. JEFFERS
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“I learned a lot about me in the past two days. Mostly about how I can change even if I feel like I can’t. I feel understood and like I have been pushed. Learning about my moral standards and value code, and the things I need to work on to succeed in life is going to make me change the way I think. Because I have a goal that I want to meet before I turn 30. Now, I know I can do it.”
T. RIGGINS
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“Today I learned different personal development. You helped me to understand that I have to learn me in order to become wonderful in anything I do and be honest with myself, to identify my true self and using that to push yourself towards wanting better. I appreciate the time you take to get to know your clients and help us understand life differently. I’m very thankful and I believe everyone should do this course. Very Refreshing.”
L.C.
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“You made me look within myself to see where I went and am still going wrong.” For that I will forever thank you.”
C. GIBSON
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“Thank you, thank you for making me see there is more to me, my life, and so much more. I walked into your class ready for something else. But I am leaving today wanting to know so much more about myself.”
Z. CRANE
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“Thank you for this class and your warm big heart. I needed these words of wisdom. I’m going to take action of improving myself for me and my kids. I’m ready for a new me, thanks to you!”
S. HUGHES
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“I loved the encouraging words you gave to me today. You dug deep and it made me feel a lot better. It’s like a burden was lifted off my chest today. I learned that my mistakes do not define my future. I learned that I don’t need to be like anyone else to be successful because God made me unique. I can be myself and give myself room to learn and grow. I’m looking at myself and I’m thinking deep into what I really need to change about me. I feel revived after this session and the burden I lifted. I will keep identifying my choices and challenges and learn to grow from them.”
Q. Denard
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“The things that were said in today’s session touched my heart because I know that God has been hearing my cry. He brought a special person to pour knowledge into me to help make me a stronger woman when I walk out today.”
J. SMITH
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“I love your teaching strategy and the how you dig deep into someone’s life and present them with the real them. Thank you.”
D. MONGAR
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"I appreciate learning from you! I appreciate you having me dig deep into myself to get the confidence for public speaking. Thank you!"
A. PETER
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"You bring out the best in me, and I'm glad to have met you. You created a safe place, and I learned so much information for now and the future. You saw the good in me even when I didn't, and you didn't let me give up. I was able to get deep, laugh, cry, and you were able to touch me and teach me."
Ash
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"You bring out the best in me, and I'm glad to have met you. You created a safe place, and I learned so much information for now and the future. You saw the good in me even when I didn't, and you didn't let me give up. I was able to get deep, laugh, cry, and you were able to touch me and teach me."
I. MARTINS
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"I want you to know that your presence changes the atmosphere. From your jokes, to playfulness, confidence, and teaching, it was just F-ing Amazing! You brightened my day. Glory to God for everything he spoke through you. Continue being you because you are touching lives the right way and bringer us closer to God, even while not being in church."
J. HARTZOG
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
"The entire process was relaxed. I felt no anxiety because you made me feel like that. I learned a lot about myself. This might sound strange or unrealistic for some people. But I think this experience, this made me a better "me." I am now focused and ready to get things done. I appreciate the little things in my life more. I AM READY TO DO THE WORK!"
M. LASSERREG
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“I just love the way you came in and told us about your experiences, gave us your authentic self, to showed us that we need to get to know more about ourselves.”
D. JEFFERS
★ ★ ★ ★ ★
“I learned a lot about me in the past two days. Mostly about how I can change even if I feel like I can’t. I feel understood and like I have been pushed. Learning about my moral standards and value code, and the things I need to work on to succeed in life is going to make me change the way I think. Because I have a goal that I want to meet before I turn 30. Now, I know I can do it.”
T. RIGGINS
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